We're Having Gay Sex

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After 10 years of serial monogamy, comedian Ashley Gavin, trades in her u-haul for a life of sleeping around and documents every gritty detail of her queer experiments in this podcast. Always in fear of being cancelled, Ashley is aided by her queerest friends, Kate Sisk, known as the "Cancel Coach", and the "Youth in the Soundbooth" Gara Lonning, equipped with a gen-z themed soundboard, to call Ashley out on her BS. Together they interview people from all over the gender and sexuality spectrums (from straight to gay and cis to trans) about their sex lives. And yes straight people, you will find out what lesbian sex is.
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  • alexpicchietti
    Filth.
    Filth.
  • RandomPowerRanger
    ⭐️
    long time listener I love this show it is such a treat every week ⭐️
  • Orangeaxolotl
    🏳️‍🌈
    I love gay sex
  • Lannabutterfly
    Host likes to hear herself talk
    Started with the Chappell Roan episode and the interviewer talked about herself for most of the episode and interrupted whenever Chappell had something to say. She always brought the conversation back to her comedy (she is not funny). Seems like this whole podcast is used to promote a comedian that doesn’t even have a positive following. I should have known better since the ads for this show on other podcasts are always irritating. It’s giving Arm Chair Expert but with white lesbians. I could not finish the ep and will not be tuning in again.
  • GeoNerdMakana
    Love
    Wait does Maddie have a BEAUTIFUL singing voice?? 😍🤩
  • PleaseDoNothing2TheCook
    i really hoped for better
    hey from one lesbian to another, maybe stop telling audience members to kill themselves and then complaining to your comedian friends about how you were cancelled for, and i cannot stress this enough, telling one your fans to kill herself. multiple times. on stage. in front of a crowd.
  • 1234shelby7
    Loved this weeks ep - gender discussion
    Loved the gender discussion on this weeks episode - more of this!!
  • LizBN HNL
    Always laughing
    This pod is so funny and really helps my long drives into work or wherever I’m going feel fun. It’s a lighthearted way to reclaim commute time.
  • tboothh
    Obsessed
    Yep this is my #1 fav podcast for sure. I’m laughing every episode and also feeling so many things and it’s helping me to realize maybe I need to figure out who I am and who I truly identify as. Gets me thinking and constantly laughing!!!
  • Cool cashews
    Hilarious comedy podcast
    Love it
  • Leroppppp
    Let your guests speak!
    I tuned in for the first time to listen to Chappell Roan’s episode but it was a FULL 30 minutes before they even asked her a real question! The hosts are truly terrible interviewers—unprepared, obnoxious, uninterested in anything unrelated to themselves. There was so much potential for good conversation here. Will not be listening again.
  • M-hondo
    Too funny
    Ok I started this show because a friend recommended it and I am so glad they did. I love the topics and how genuinely funny Ashley, Maddie and all the guests are. Seriously though y’all making me look crazy because I listen to this when I work out in the gym and I’m trying to stifle my laughter while preventing a dumbbell from crushing my head with this content. I know there are safer places to listen to this podcast but… anyway besides the point. Thank you for having this podcast. Keep up the strong work and I love listening!
  • kendramarie821
    Every episode makes me lol
    This podcast is so good it’s unbelievable. I probably look ridiculous laughing on the subway to what seems like nothing. There are also so many important conversations that take place here related to queerness. WHGS will entertain you, validate you, and maybe help you discover something about yourself. Also, I’m a patron and it’s completely worth it for the bonus content. 10/10
  • Not so baby anymore bi
    Do I have a parasocial relationship?
    Probably. Do I also respect her as an artist? yes. Love this Podcast and Ashley’s work.
  • Sav70832
    Great stories and Inspirational
    I love listening to the stories and different experiences that people have and I love how it feels like we are listening to friends casually hanging out! Its also inspiring to people who maybe need a push to have their own experiences… I’ve definitely been inspired to have more experiences because of this podcast!
  • maiforinger
    WHGS makes my day brighter
    Ashley’s created an incredible world with her comedy podcast and the wide range of guests and co-hosts. Comedy is first and foremost, but the insight and commentaries that come with the stories is something special because of who is hosting the podcast and who she’s invited onto the show. Ashley Gavin’s made comedy more accessible to the queer community through this podcast. Every episode makes me laugh and think. The guests are so fun and have such a wide array of experiences and perspectives, and I always leave the podcast feeling happier and a little more aware of the communities around me.
  • Just Another Denise
    10/10 comedy
    Ashley and her cohosts are such thoughtful, funny people and this show is a joy to listen to.
  • Jenlshow1991
    I fricken love Ashley
    Let me just say I first found Ashley on TikTok and the way I had to devour all of her content was intense. Love this podcast so much I’ve watched / listened to every single episode. I’ve also gone and seen her live like literally greatest comedian ever.
  • TheAudOneOut
    Hilarious
    This podcast is the only thing that keeps me sane during my hour long commute. Ashley and her co-hosts/guests never fail to keep me laughing out loud which probably makes me look like a crazy person driving down the parkway but I’m good with it
  • Oliviabensonfan
    Fantastic
    I look forward to this pod every week! Thank you Ashley for making such a great community and for making me laugh every Monday
  • Disgruntled Dog Filter
    This Podcast Saved My Sex Life
    After showing my gf this podcast, you can call me Thumper by the frequency in which we are having SO much gay sex. 🐰🏳️‍🌈🐰
  • Benjamin.S.Burton
    Ashley 2024
    You don’t have to be a November Scorpio to understand Ashley but it helps. Amazing as always
  • Soccer6969
    so funny
    so funny! This pod was huge for me when I was first coming out and has been one of my favorites for years.
  • Hihihihihihijihih
    Big love for Ashley
    If this podcast ever ends I’ll kill myself.
  • Hugo Rubio Destroyer Of Cringe
    alright
    this isn’t good but that name is pretty funny
  • Stine C
    Disappointed
    I listened to this podcast since the beginning. Was HuGE fan… my wife and I were super excited to meet Ashley this past weekend in Denver, it was literally something we both couldn’t be more excited for. When we met her she almost seemed freaked out by us. Super cold… it’s such a let down that I can’t even listen to this podcast anymore, due to the sour taste it put in my mouth. Just know Ashley…. People really do look forward to meet you, maybe be a little more warm to your fans.
  • ssdgm hh32
    ‘ppreciate the content
    It could be cool to hear from a queer female/male (or both!) from a branch of the military. This is a corner of the world I know nothing about and would definitely find enlightening.
  • CaitT2205
    Great show
    I’ve been a long time listener and fan of her comedy. She’s funny, her co hosts are funny, and her guests are always so sweet and engaging!
  • Jordan Draper
    Love, laughter & theory corner
    Ashley Gavin is one of my favorite comedians, and her cohost is always great, too! It is my favorite podcast. I listen to it daily, which is great when you need a laugh or cheered up. I wanted to suggest a topic that surprisingly hasn’t been covered: the difference between pansexuality and bisexuality. The definitions seem fuzzy for some, and I would love to hear the discussion amongst cis/trans/nb queer people. Also, Maddie needs to be added in the About section of the podcast's description. Thank you for sharing your time with us!
  • antiup
    Bro this podcast has gone way to far
    I’ve been listening for awhile and even subscribe to the Patreon. I had some hope that Ashley would improve as a host but this weeks episode was actually unbearable to listen to. Ashley seems to only continue to make this podcast as a way to talk about herself for an hour every week. This weeks episode was almost entirely her bickering with her cohost, with the two of them continuously going on tangents about themselves instead of engaging with the guest. There was bizarre tension between the two of them and Ashley was also being kinda rude to her? Then at one point Ashley was speaking so aggressively to her that the cohost had to calm her down. I’m kind of fed up with the way Ashley treats her own opinions as if they are god tbh, interjecting during every topic to discuss how it relates back to her. She also acts like she has a responsibility to validate everyone else’s sexuality which I find very annoying. Give it a listen if you want to tune into an insanely awkward interaction every week.
  • BrendaLPGA
    Used to be better
    For a significant duration, the show has prominently featured an abundance of cisgender heterosexual men, resulting in its shift towards a more mainstream vibe and the loss of its distinctive queer edge.
  • your-fatmom
    “Funny”
    I’m suicidal I can assure you telling ppl to kts ain’t funny and always interrupting your guests learn manners you are also very loud and annoying 🤡. This should have 0 stars!
  • Didi Starr
    Natasha Lyonne is gender
    Matty was right. (Fun podcast! Minus one star bc weight loss ads are no bueno.)
  • A_Colin
    In Tokyo
    My wife and I were in the front row for your set at Tokyo Comedy Bar. It was so amazing! We’re now both following the podcast and hope you can come back again sometime!!! 💜
  • averyapplepeach
    Bad person
    You used to really annoy me on this podcast, talking over guests, being super loud while doing it, and after hearing how you treated a fan at a show, truly makes me sick. You need help
  • Jelly in a bowl
    Everyone is awesome except the host
    Great guests. Kate Sisk was really sweet and kept me listening for a long time. The host, Ashley, is mad annoying and deeply unfunny. Her trump impressions make me physically cringe.
  • Definitely Displeased.
    Great interview subjects, difficult host
    I first started listening to WHGS a couple of years ago when I first came out and was desperate for representation even though I didn’t really care for Ashley’s brash, loud hosting style. The producers and guests balanced her out enough for me to mostly enjoy listening. I also joined the Patreon and stayed on long after I found myself listening less because 1) I believe in financially supporting queer media 2) Ashley occasionally guilt trips listeners about how hard it is to run a queer media enterprise. I never took advantage of the live show benefits because I didn’t like how Ashley would complain on the podcast about crowds either being too quiet or too loud at her shows or even specific people who annoyed her. I never wanted to go to a show and then hear her complain about me on a later episode. I also got the sense that these complaints might be Ashley complaining about disengaged audiences and may not be that great live. Well, it’s recently come out that Ashley harassed (if you’ve heard the recording you know that’s putting it lightly) a fan named Olivia at a show in Indianapolis. Ashley did apologize but failed to mention what happened or how she will prevent it in the future apart from promising to “do better.” Based on her hosting style I genuinely wonder if she thinks she can “do better” at harassing fans? All of that made me realize I find the combative hosting style stressful even though I do enjoy some of the interviews because there just aren’t enough queer dating podcasts out there.
  • HeidiZ25
    MADDIE
    It is literally impossible to hear Maddie’s laugh and not laugh along with them!!
  • alexis12788
    The worst host
    Good god the hosts of this show are annoying. I couldn't even finish multiple episodes because the host kept talking over her guests, never letting them Finish a thought. She needs training on how to interview. You can be funny without being over the top obnoxious.
  • Sydnie Hyams
    My fav pod!
    Lovvve this podcast so much! It always makes my day :)
  • TheChris15
    Love the Pod
    Ashley and Co. are always finding ways to make me laugh! And we have the same birthday!!! Who’d have guessed!
  • Big lifter boy
    A Prime Gym Listen
    I throw this on a lot while working out! Super funny and informative, and always has cool guests. Throw this thing on while pumpin’ some iron!!
  • PollocksWife
    Must listen
    I love Ashley and lol many times throughout the episodes. Saw her recently at her comedy show and loved her even more watching her.
  • Nadine1288
    It’s a NO for me
    I tuned in to listen to the interview with Rae from Queer Ultimatum and because another queer friend recommended this podcast. I listened to a few more episodes and I have to say. This is the most obnoxious host my poor ears have had to listen to. She constantly talks over her guests and wants to be the star. Her voice is not very podcast friendly either. This woman is a total narcissist and I feel bad for her cohosts that have to deal with her. Two star review from me. Yikes stay away.
  • Your Favorite Listener😌
    Nope!!
    Not a mentally unhealthy person telling her own fan the kill her herself over and over again. Completely done with this comedian who thinks it’s funny to tell her fans to kill themselves.
  • VannaB2010
    Love Ashley
    I love Ashley! Always super funny and lots of jaw dropping stories 😍 best podcast ever!!
  • hmichael12
    Bullying isn’t comedy
    You can’t just tell people to k*ll themselves and not address it queen
  • oatmeal_queen
    Not funny
    Host tells people to kill themselves multiple times at her live shows. Which is illegal actually.
  • 30th Stinkin tried at a name
    ashley is a nasty piece of
    work
  • m34:r
    Ashley isn’t funny
    … she’s mean. If the persona was a bit, it would only work if she was funny.
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