I really like that this podcast is funny and blunt and covers so many topics! But what is really great is it comes out on Mondays and it is so high energy so it Monday morning can be laughs and learnings in a really energetic way. Great way to kick off the week!

I love this podcast. Listening to this helped bring levity to me in a time I was really struggling with postpartum depression. I continue to listen now and it makes my week! Thank you for continuing to make the podcast. I know that you make a positive impact, for myself and other confidantes!

Girlfriend you’re the BEST! However, your podcast audio is extremely quite compared to all others on the platform for some reason? I’m having to turn it up all the way to be able to hear it at a decent level. I promise you, I’ve tried everything! Okay love you bye! ☺️

Super unhinged & I love it! Very informative but still fun. DONT GOOGLE IT I laugh, I learn, I cringe, I cry, I learn again! LOVEEEEEE

The way these two show case themselves so unapologetically is so inspiring! The epitome of kindness, sincerity, and genuine vulnerability is found in this podcast — a rarity these days.

I love that Zach got the format to change bc whatttt lol. I like Zach’s format better, sorry Kelsey 😭. The Easter bunny story seems more unhinged than the convos I’ve been hearing. (I started from newest to oldest)

Much like when you first sign up for twitter, i listened to one ep, didn’t get it, came back a few months later and now i can’t go a single week without making the time to listen to these two yap. i love the tea, the jokes, the roasts, it’s like being in the room with you. don’t stop podding!!!

Love listening to Kelsey and Zach. They crack me up. Listen to two genuine friends with the best witty banter and a real take on life. 5/5 🌟🌟🌟🌟🌟

Happy Birthday, Zach! Love you both! Thank you for talking about the election and what it means when people who say they love you vote against your rights!

I love this podcast! I feel like I’m having coffee (or a celsius) with these two while they talking about sex education, relationships, world events, and so much more. I love the chemistry of their friendship and how supportive they are of each-other. Kelsey and Zach, you are my favorite and I love the education format and the random format equally.

Hello Kelsey and Zach, I am a big fan of the podcast. You are both so funny! I want to thank you in particular for normalizing non-monogamy. Listening to your podcast gave me the courage to bring up opening our relationship with my husband! He is completely on board and we are both excited for new experiences! We never talked to each other about ENM before because we both assumed the other wouldn’t be into it (just because of society’s norms) so I am glad I can across your podcast! I appreciate how open you are about your life and thank you again for normalizing this lifestyle! Love you both!

Kelsey and Zach are a great pairing with my coffee on my way to work on Monday mornings. I teach college gender and sexuality studies so this podcast is the best vibe to get the week started!

Their energy - amazing. Their banter - 🔥🔥🔥. Keeps me coming back every week!

Can we be besties??!! I’m obsessssedddd😍

Do yourself a favor and listen to Confidently Insecure. Kelsey and Zach will talk about everything and anything all while being so real. Listening to them has helped me with my body positivity and pushed me to be unapologetically myself. They are such inspirations while also being messy babes. LOVE THEM SO SO MUCH!!!

There is little in this world I love more than screaming at Kelsey and Zach while stuck in DC-area Monday morning traffic because they couldn’t think of a word or explained something incorrectly. Sometimes I think yall really do need to just… Google it. 😘

(As another blonde bisexual Leo Queen named Kelsey) I’ve been following Kelsey since the Buzzfeed days and have listened to every podcast episode from the beginning. When Kelsey announced she was going to have a cohost moving forward I immediately knew It had to be Zach. His guest episodes were always my favorite and I loved seeing you two together in Dating No Filter (Bring it back E!) When it was released that Zach was the new cohost, I screamed in excitement and I love getting to listen to the two of you together now on to the pod each week.

Its kind of like having two fun friends having a lil chat in your ear. They always seem to bring up subjects that are relevant in my day to day life and it’s nice to not only laugh - but feel understood. I would run through a brick wall for Kelsey and Zach and I mean every word of it.

I’ve been a fan of these two since “Dating no Filter” show. Their energy is so awesome together! You guys make me laugh so hard!

I love the chemistry you two have. You crack me up and I look forward to new episodes each week. Cant wait to see the live show when you come to Portland!!

Absolutely, truly, loveeeeeeeee this podcast, and I loveeeeee when they talk about politics too!

You guys make my morning once a week!! Thank you!!

I appreciate the normalization of an abortion. So many people are having one and just not taking about it. This is real life, and women’s health.

I say this as someone extremely pro-choice, the abortion episode was tasteless. Talking about it is one thing, I think women do need to hear stuff like this that it’s okay, but this episode is not it. It’s still a serious, heavy choice that almost every woman who makes that choice probably dealt with guilt and questioning over whether it was the right choice. Being emotionally immature about it and calling it the “abor-abor” is absolutely gross.

Kelsey and Zach have erased my Monday blues forever (well at least as long as this pod keeps running 🙏🏼🙏🏼). It feels like I’m just having my morning coffee with my friends talking in my ear. Politics, sexuality, pop culture, you name it, WE TALK ABOUT IT! Love you guys immensely. KEEP THEM COMING!

I’ve literally listened to half of the newest episode and I’m here to rate this 5 stars because I am fundamentally against men complaining about politics. So glad you feel secure enough in your own rights not to be preoccupied with and talk about politics often.

I listen to tons of podcasts (they keep me alive at work), but whenever I see there’s a new Confidently Insecure posted I gotta listen to that one first!! I love the chemistry between Kelsey and Zach. They are hilarious. I love when they talk about politics. Kisses!!!!!

Absolutely love anything these two talk about and want to share with us 💁🏼‍♀️🔥☕️

I absolutely love this podcast. When I met Zach and Kelsey in Philly they were so sweet. I listen to this podcast to keep me from going insane at my 9-5.

I always listen to this podcast whenever I wanna laugh or live vicariously through these two sluts. Thanks for everything that you do and keep that knowledge (or lack of) comin’ 😉😙

I use to enjoy listening to these two but now they’ve gone as far as to pretty much brag about her abortion?! Pushing extremely false information about voting blue this November or our democracy is over?! We don’t live in a Democracy, we live in a Constitutional Republic. Our “democracy” is almost destroyed BECAUSE of people voting blue. WAKE UP!!!! CNN brainwashed much? I’m literally seeing Revelation play out in real time and these people are on the wrong side of history. It’s actually scary.

I love Zach and Kelsey! The new loosey goosey format of the pod is great. Sometimes less formal structure is better 💜

Heard Zach on couples therapy and needed more of him! Love Kelsey! Bingeing all day long! Kelsey! Peel a whole garlic clove and put it in your vagina as far as it can go. It’s amazing for eliminating yeast and gives instant relief. It can stay in for a few days or it can come out on its own or you can give birth to it with a little help from your finger. Separately, douche with one or two tablespoon of boric acid with warm water (dissolve) then fill the hot water bottle with water (midwife hack). Cleans you out! Wishing you relief! I couldn’t find your email address but wanted to share 🧄 🫶🏼

Kelsey is hilarious and real and you all should listen to this podcast! I have been a big fan of her since I first watched her on YouTube, AdultSh1t was awesome and I think this will be even more fun. I can’t wait for more episodes of this show!!! Seriously though I’m very excited. 💗💗💗 Edit: still listening to this and still love it, Zach has been a great addition as much as I loved Kelsey solo! I hope u guys keep making tons of episodes because I will be LISTENINGGGG But seriously thank u for keeping me sane when I’m sad and need to veg out ❤️

OMG KELSEY!!! I’m listening to your phone sex episode and I’m screaming inside! I can’t believe neither of you have listened to the podcast Operator from Wondery!! It’s all about the ins and outs and dirty secrets of the first phone sex line and even has interviews with the girls and guys in charge etc. You HAVE to listen to it! You will love it. ♥️♥️

Love you guys ! Zach is right tho we need more only house keeping episodes and I say this because the title will only be 20 mins of an episode so might as well stick to subject or not at all. Just an idea lol

I love the dynamic between Kelsey and Zach. There is so much love between, which is great to listen too & it makes me feel part of their bestie circle. I also appreciate all the sex talk. I grew catholic, sexual repressed, and find that talking about sex is still considered taboo. Hearing them talk so freely about sex has help me more comfortable with my own sexual journey and exploring things that I use to be ashamed of. (Oh catholic guilt!) I am grateful for the non judgmental safe space the podcast has created!

I’m obsessed with this podcast! It is my comfort pod. Feels like I’m chatting with my friends. Love the segments, especially “housekeeping” bc I’m catching up with two great people. Seriously this podcast is on all the time for me. I wish I could go to their live show! So grateful to Kelsey and ZNT!

Wouldn’t be here if it wasn’t for 5 stars! I cannot tell you how many times I’ve laughed so hard I’ve cried while listening! And the cherry on top is that I love Kelsey and Zach’s amazing friendship being so open and honest about their mental health journey has been really helpful and eye opening for me. Love this podcast always walk away with a smile thank you guys for making it!

A+ pod. 10/10.

The ‘don’t google it’ button? Amazing.

This is my all time favorite podcast. They have the best chemistry and are both hilarious. I’ve listened to every single episode and would listen to them all again.

This show is so funny and insightful. Kelsey and Zach are wonderful human beings and the funniest people around.

So funny, so fun, so real, so relatable and just an all round GOOD HUMAN. I love this podcast and I love her.

I don’t appreciate when episodes aren’t what they’re advertised to be, so if you find yourself scrolling for an episode based on the title, keep moving along! I was quite disappointed and won’t be a return patron, but I feel compelled to share a few take-always that were of poor taste. I was expecting an entertaining and informative episode on cruise stories (show notes indicate a history on cruise ships, where they came from, where they’re heading to). After roughly 25-30 minutes, there was STILL no mention of anything remotely related to a cruise (besides a pedestrian description of a sexual encounter on a cruise). I personally found the hosts not very entertaining, and overly tawdry. I understand and appreciate that not everyone will agree with me here. I’m writing this because I’m overly passionate when it comes to serving others and working with women and young ladies who either haven’t found or, even worse, whose voice has been muted. I understand that can very well be construed as hypocritical, but often the most impactful changes rise from conflict. The language of both hosts was very disappointing, and weakened their message, which remained ambiguous even after listening to the episode in conclusion. Lastly, I take full accountability for not reading through all of the show notes, and titles of other episodes. The rudimentary play on “horrific” was an accurate indication of what the shows about. If anyone took the time to read this missive, and consider a different opinion, thank you! I challenge you to expose yourself to something other than smut. Try it out, you can always come back! It’s fascinating to learn from others with the tenacity and intelligence to appreciate and harness their power and grace. These are the folks who make positive change that impacts generations. We’ll never get there by cheapening our voice and filling our heads with air.

I have been a dedicated listener for about two months now and I am here to say THE SOUNDBOARD IS GREAT!! I started listening after like one or two episodes with the soundboard and I won’t go back to listen farther than when the soundboard started because it adds so much to the show. Wooo for the soundboard!!!!

Ftw.

Perfect podcast. No notes.

Loving zach

Kelsey is enthusiastic about supporting mental health, but doesn’t seem considerate enough to handle the topics responsibly. Assuming the best of intentions for her, I wish she would consider how she is responding to guests before just jumping in without really hearing them. At best it’s interesting, at worst its counter-productive and perpetuates unhealthy ideas under the guise of “no filter”.