I started BINGE-LISTENING to the pod just about 6 months ago and fell for y’all quickly! I was a little skeptical on the added speakers but what I have learned from y’all is: how can I get upset about other people wanting to grow and evolve, THEIR way? So I’m with it! May God bless you all and enlarge your territory!

I love the update and hearing from Matt,Josh and TRIBBLE (Devale voice)

Love love the rebrand! Just wish it was only you two on the show. The added voices would be great maybe for a single segment but not the whole show!

Don’t really care for the added guests. I listened to every podcast you guys put out and they were great. I’m just not a fan of this new episode. Kinda wish it was just yall two. I’ll give it another shot.

As a couple Devale & Khadeen bring authenticity whenever they go. This podcast is educational in so many different aspects & I am extremely grateful for them being able to talk about taboo topics.

I love this couple and how they challenge the status quo. I don’t always agree with what they say, but it’s so refreshing to hear open minded discussions about life, relationships, etc. I have learned SO MUCH about how to better navigate my own relationships thanks to Devale and Khadeen. These guys are the real deal. Glad they are back!!

This rebrand is amazing! Love the addition! Love hearing Trib, Matt & Josh on the mics!! Letsssss Gooo!!!! I’ve been watching guys since I was in College in 2016 and now i’m a 28 yr old woman with BIG DREAMS & I LOVE MY FAMILY AND DREAM TO HAVE MY OWN!! You both truly inspire me 😍🫶🏾💫 I love Y’all! Thank you for sharing with us!

I’m not the biggest fan of change, therefore when you guys announced that you were changing the dynamics of the show I was a bit worried. I ABSOLUTELY LOVE the new dynamic of the show! I love to hear the point of view from Tribble, Mat, and Josh. Tribble especially lol! You guys are doing an amazing job and I’m so happy you guys decided to continue to have this show because with a world filled of podcasters I love to hear from a group of people who are actually professionally qualified to have this type of platform! Great jobs guys!

Long long time follower since Black Love I have been following you guys and your family. First, it has been wonderful watching your success and family grow in prosperity. I have always enjoyed your guests and I would love to see you guys invite the hosts of We Don’t Always Agree Ryan & Sterling

I was googling books to read that would help me improve my relationship. I wanted an author of color and preferably with substance. That’s when I came across We Over Me. Of course I immediately ordered it but I also noticed the information of this pod. I now listen daily while simultaneously reading the book. Giving me the right amount of humor and knowledge based on both facts and experience. This really is one of the best pods out there!

I absolutely LOVE the LOVE they have for each other & them boys! The lesson taught is profoundly beautiful and remarkable! FAMILY it’s FIRST! I pray you all keep this podcast & deadass going because it gives me LIFE & more to look forward to within my life. DEADASS!

They address some important topics and offer helpful perspectives but so much of it gets lost in their interrupting of each other. They’ll even interrupt each other just to finish the other person’s recollection of an experience or their feelings on a situation. I’d suggest taking mental notes of your responses and saving them for when the other person’s genuinely done with their point. Also, understanding that every point being made doesn’t call for your wisdom, sometimes it’s okay to just let the other person share their feelings or experiences without interjecting. Doesn’t mean you’re not heard and valued. Great podcast otherwise. The story of Devale running out of the restaurant in the resort with the chair cushion on his head moved me to tears. It’s lovely to see another husband being a safe space for their partner.

I just adore you both listening to the podcast definitely put a smile on my face it’s like chopping it up with a big brother and sister that I never had thanks for welcoming me in you guys world. Much love from OKLAHOMA yo baby sis Cherry

I absolutely love Devale and Khadeen! The amount of love and solutions that they radiate through every episode.. This Podcast is Empowering, Endearing, Educational (for any relationship status) !! They are the Power Couple of the century 🙏🏼🙌🏼 King & Queen 🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼

Love the podcast, seriously. It was the first one I ever listened to and what got me hooked on listening to them in general. I’ve only been following for about 2-3 years but I’m definitely caught up and have listened to alllll the episodes. Hearing them speak on everything from relationships/marriage, family, kids, parents, all of it is amazing and highly respectable. Oh and not that they need me to but, shameless plug for the book, I’ve read that too… twice. Would recommend it to everybody. Devale and Khadeen, “DEADASS” - if y’all read this, y’all feel like older cousins who I actually want and like to take advice from and I wish y’all nothing but the best and continued blessings “CUT”

I love you guys and love listening to your podcast! I have huge respect for you both. I feel like you guys have made me think a lot about in my life. I listen to you guys daily instead of music now.

Khadeen and Devale are so cute together. They’re one of my favorite celebrity couples. I really enjoy the topics, interaction and vibe of this podcast. Great job!!! 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽

I want to thank you both for always keeping it real and relevant in so many topics! Life be lifing and this podcast gets me through! I love the dynamic of your relationship and how the love is embedded throughout the whole show! Hoping one day I can see this in person! Keep pushing!

I love the show and I have enjoyed all the guest especially the episode with Sanya Richards-Ross, but where is Devale get him back home I enjoy hearing the two of you together.

I used to really enjoy this podcast. However, I noticed that in all of the episodes Khadeen is being called out for something and profusely applogizing. Devalle on the other hand, refuses to acknowledge his flaws or admit any wrongdoing. It’s always “I’m protective,” “I’m just trying to be motivational,” “I’m just so driven.” I began to actually start to feel bad for Khadeen and couldn’t bear to listen to Devalle brag about himself anymore.

Every time a podcast is added, I can’t wait to listen. Everything is so informative and inspirational. Keep up the good work in everything that you all do.

Please include more episodes with Sakari.

I always listen and love yall pov on family life and love..today was a different vibe with sis and so informative on her path to success😊

This podcast is everything. I love it

You both have such a positive impact on couples and families. Your work inspires us to [mention something specific you find inspiring, e.g., laugh together more, communicate openly, build a strong foundation]. My wife is a huge fan of Devale's shows, and I can't get enough of your podcast - it feels like we're speaking the same language! We'd love to meet you guys someday, but in the meantime, keep up the fantastic work. We're big fans!"

This podcast is so relatable, real & keeps your interest from beginning to end. I love how the discussions are things you can laugh with, cry with and apply to your own everyday life. Brooklyn Stand up ! New York should be proud ! Love you Khadeen & Devale & the Boys !

Love this podcast but omg let Kay talk.

The information on the podcast was great . I have no children my husband, still the nuggets on conversation of parents and parenting awesome .

Since listening to your podcasts it makes me look at myself and want to be a better spouse, mother, sister, and daughter. You guys keep doing what your doing because it amazing.

I really enjoy listening every week to the DeadAss Podcast!! I have the We Over Me Book and I am a subscriber on Patreon! You can say that I am a big fan on the Ellis family ❤️

You guys have helped my marriage soooo much . Help me to look at things from not only my perspective but my Husband’s. Love seeing black family that shows and talk about not only the good but the bad as well. Please don’t stop the live shows completely.

This podcast keeps blessing me. Thank you both so much. Just finished listening to “the self tape incident” and it was amazing. I’m 5 years in the marriage game and you guys give me hope. Proof that this will be a forever evolving journey. It’s been rough but it great to see/hear couples that continue to do the work.

There soo much to be said about this podcast and this couple! They are amazing. The team alongside them is amazing! The story’s they tell and the guest that they have on the show, are amazing! They have saved me a numerous amount of times with the subject matter and also helped me wanting to open my heart up to love again with the book! Thank God for your willingness to share. Thank you all for being… YOU!!!

You Guys Are Inspirational and Meeting you too for the first time was an experience I couldn’t forget! Kinda life changing you to aren’t reading from a scrip just super transparent and deadass being you! That’s what was the message overall meeting you to. Just honoring self love that awareness opens so many doors. It’s not you to that I idolize it’s the word of God that you to are speaking his words to others I honor that and respect you two whole heartedly said the loud girl at the Apollo 🤣💪🏾❤️

I purchased your book a week ago and let me tell just finished it. Let me say THANK YOU!! So much for the advice and the inspiration about marriage. My wife and I love you both and continue to share your wisdom as a marriage couple and as individuals. Again. Thank you

I just recently started listening to y’all podcast but I’ve been following y’all on all the social media platforms, and YouTube channel and I’m so happy that I found a podcast that inspires me to listen to more of your stories and advice you give about different topics. Keep being the great!!!! Such a huge fan!!!

There’s been a shift in parenting and The Ellis’s broke it all the way down!

Been listening from the beginning and it just gets better. You guys are amazing parents and I love how real you guys are. One of my favorite podcasts still and story time is my absolute favorite segment. You guys are hilarious! Love y’all

I love hearing positive dialogue about AA/black people. Many news outlets are quick to highlight negative images of us. Thank you both for being a role model to children of how to agree to disagree and most importantly how to love yourself, one another and your family.

I’m with Deval on if you want to start something JUST START IT! I don’t care for the new year to start anything. If I want to do something I’m going to start doing it. Being dedicated, consistent, not trying to come up w/ excuses and staying focus.

I started following your podcast from the monogamy episode I viewed a clip I believe on YouTube. I was hooked to both of your insight, Kay’s wit and Devale’s humor. I love the way you express love to each other. I binge listened from the verybeginnign and this show and your views have evolved. Thank you guys for sharing, I’m sure that it is not easy.

I remember seeing these 2 for the first time on a show called Black Love. They grabbed my attention immediately from their body language. The Mrs had her legs draped over his and he sat there accepting it all. As they started talking about their journey Devale started to cry at some point. Khadeen seemed taken by surprised and immediately comforted him. Since then I was hooked on these 2 and their love. Few years later Devale winded up on Sistas and I was like what? I looked him up and started following him and his wife. Now they have this amazing podcast and they are both beautiful smart and talented. Triple threats. Oh and amazing parents. They always bring me out of a rut and lift me up. They are vulnerable, honest and super brave to share so much of their love and vulnerability. I’d love to meet them one day. Go to one of the shows on tour. They are friends in my head and heart and I truly love them both!

I’m not sure if it’s their Northern accent or the topics.. J/K I really love both Devale and Khadeen and the topics they both talk about. Very good podcast!

I want to start off by giving both of you your flowers. You guys really are helping me change the way I handle situations. I’ve been with my boyfriend for 9 years and listening to you guys really helped me better myself for my relationship. I love you guys so much and I want you to keep doing what you are doing because you both have a very powerful voice !! Never forget that.

I just caught up to all the podcasts. I love how open you guys are and i love seeing the change in mindset throughout this podcast journey. KEEP UP THE GOOD WORK❤️

I’m so glad Kadeen mentioned to put your foot down with the parents! Everything can be said respectfully you have to be able to have your man’s back.

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All I have to say is… subscribe and you’ll see why it’s 5 stars!

My favorite couple to unravel what family and life is in a relationship. Truthfully and Authentically

I literally love every aspect of this podcast. I learned so much! Please keep going! ❤️